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A Kansas mom was left in tears after she asked her young daughter to declutter her bedroom ahead of the holidays.
Rachel Madl (@thedailymadl) shared in a reel on Instagram that she told Harper to make a pile of “anything she was ready to let go of,” including toys and clothes.
When Madl returned to check on her progress, she saw Harper’s barbies, dolls and horses stacked up in her room—all the toys she thought she still loved.
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Madl asked her daughter why she was giving away the dolls that had once brought her so much joy. Harper’s response was one she wasn't prepared for: “I’m not a little girl anymore, mom.”
Madl, who is also mom to son Theodore with her husband Parker, reacted with confusion, then sadness.
“I had thought she still adored all of those toys scattered across the floor,” the 31-year-old told Newsweek. “It was like her childhood had hit me in the face. Every memory tied to each toy started flooding back. I could vividly see her playing with every single one.”
The realization that her daughter wasn’t so little anymore shifted something in her motherhood journey.
“It saddens me to admit that I see her as older now, even though she’ll forever be my little girl,” Madl said. “Motherhood definitely feels different too. I find myself cherishing each stage of childhood even more deeply, knowing now just how quickly it all changes.”
For the mom of two, the Barbie Dream House stands out as the most memorable. It was the number one toy on Harper’s Christmas 2022 list and her parents stayed up all night building it.
“The next morning, when she saw it sitting downstairs, her face lit up with pure joy,” Madl said. “It was her favorite toy for years, so when she decided she was done with it, it stirred up so many emotions for me. It felt like we were closing a chapter.”
The fleeting years of early childhood are ones that many parents, Madl believes, don’t realize are ending until it’s already over.
“No one talks about this part of motherhood,” she wrote in her caption. “No one prepared me for the words: ‘I’m not a little girl anymore.’”
Madl's reel has been viewed over a million times on Instagram. In the comments, parents were moved by Harper’s words.
“My 7-year-old is very close to this and said no more toys for Christmas!! I am heartbroken as well,” one mom wrote.
“Omg I am now crying because my daughter is going through this,” another added.
Many others encouraged Madl to store the toys away for now, convinced she may change her mind.
For other parents who might soon face a similar moment, Madl advised them to “cherish every second for as long as you can.”
“It goes by faster than you think,” she continued. “Let your kids be kids for as long as possible! Society pushes everyone to grow up so fast, and even the toys and gifts marketed to kids now are so different from what we had growing up. There’s magic in innocence. Hold onto it while you can.”
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